The first definitions of the word “product” [Merriam-Webster] are as follows: a] something produced, especially a commodity; and b] something that is marketed or sold as a commodity. Number three takes a bit different tack: something resulting from or necessarily following from a set of conditions, i.e. a product of his environment.
That last phrase is the one I’d like to go away . . . “a product of his environment.” These few words make me sad. Sad? Yes, and here’s why.
If I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard those words—including the occasions in my own life when they came tumbling out of my mouth—I’d have more than enough quid for weeks of fine dinners. While it’s important to not take things too literally, here’s where that definition and I part ways. You. And. I. Are. Not. Products. We are each a living, breathing, person.
In light of that reality how about a more human-sensitive definition? Due to circumstances following from a set of conditions I experienced as a child, I may exhibit certain personality traits or attitudes. Positive or negative, good or less than loving, each of us have been impacted by the choices and actions of others.
Here’s the Divine truth: yes, we may carry the imprints of our upbringing and environment; yes, we may act or behave in ways that reflect that upbringing; yes, we may be the better or worse for the conditions of our childhood years, however, as the days unfold into young adulthood and beyond, we have opportunities to be changed or transformed. The bottom line? That’s simply not possible with an inanimate “product.”
Have I referred to myself as a “product”? Why?
As a human being, how might I be open to healthy change or transformation?
